Top 20 Movies That Made Men Cry
Welcome to WatchMojo, and today we’re counting down our picks for the most gut-wrenching films that can turn the toughest bro into a blubbering puddle. We won’t be including any animated entries. Do you consider yourself a macho man, yet always reach for the tissue box during a specific movie? Share that favorite tear-jerker of yours in the comments below!
#20: “Gran Torino” (2008)
In 2008, director Clint Eastwood tapped into a lingering problem that has only worsened over the past few decades: male loneliness. Eastwood stars as Walt Kowalski, a widowed veteran grinding out his final years in self-imposed isolation. Despite his racist and cantankerous demeanor, Walt unexpectedly becomes a mentor figure to his young Hmong neighbors, eventually forming a bond with them. When these neighbors become the target of local gangs, Walt sacrifices his life to save them. Many older men, who have racked up a lifetime of regrets, deeply resonate with Walt’s journey. Through his eventual willingness to connect with others and his redemption act of sacrificing himself, Walt’s story has the power to bring even the toughest old men to tears.
#19: “Furious 7” (2015)
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After the tragic death of Paul Walker, the seventh film in this franchise was delayed in order to give loved ones time to mourn and the filmmakers time to decide how to respectfully continue without the actor. Alongside the movie’s resonant themes about the importance of family and friendship, the final scene in particular packs one heck of a heart-wrenching conclusion. As we see Dom and Brian driving alongside each other on an open road, we’re treated to flashbacks of times the two shared in prior films. This not only pays tribute to both the character and Paul Walker himself, it also indicates that his memory will never die as they both go their separate ways.
#18: “The Pursuit of Happyness” (2006)
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In the 2006 drama “The Pursuit of Happyness,” Will Smith showcased his acting prowess with his portrayal of Chris Gardner, a real-life salesman turned broker. The film captures Chris on a downward spiral, as his lack of success in sales leads to his eviction, plunging him and his young son into poverty and homelessness. Throughout their ordeal, Chris attempts to shield his son from the worst of their financial woes, while maintaining his own dignity. “The Pursuit of Happyness” is a relatable story about the difficulties of making ends meet in America. It is skillfully written, beautifully acted and injected with multiple aspects that will surely strike a chord with every working man.
#17: “About Time” (2013)
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“About Time” is a sci-fi rom-com that manages to perfectly blend both genres. Domhnall Gleeson stars as Tim Lake, who learns that he has inherited the ability to time travel, allowing him to revisit moments in his life and make different choices. Using this power, Tim forges a romance with Rachel McAdams’ character and connects with his dad, played by Bill Nighy. With their shared time traveling ability, father and son form a bond that lasts through multiple lifetimes. Even after his father's death, Tim continues to travel back to see him. Eventually, Tim must choose to abandon his father in the past to protect the existence of his own son. Their parting is bittersweet, and we challenge you to watch the film without sobbing.
#16: “Homeward Bound: The Incredible Journey” (1993)
In the history of cinema, there are few connections as pure as that between a boy and his dog. Baby Boomers got their collective heart broken when Travis Coates had to put down his beloved family dog, Old Yeller. For Gen X and elder millennials, “Homeward Bound” is the dog film that brought them to tears. Two dogs and a cat accidentally get separated from their human family, and are forced into a grueling journey through the wilderness to return home. They survive many dangers - from bears and mountain lions to river rapids - and finally make it home. This heartfelt reunion is certainly capable of bringing a tear to the eye of any man with even half a heart.
#15: “E.T. the Extra-Terrestrial” (1982)
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Steven Spielberg’s “E.T.” was a pop culture cornerstone in the childhoods of ‘80s kids. It’s the quintessential ‘kids on bikes’ story, and arguably has one of the saddest scenes from the entire decade. After befriending a young boy and his friends, a friendly alien ‘E.T.’ is captured by shady government agents. He’s strapped to a table in front of his young friend as they run medical experiments. The not-so-tender actions of the government appear to lead our intrepid little extraterrestrial to his demise. Seeing a little boy mourn his alien friend is utterly heartbreaking. Even when E.T. comes back to life, their tearful goodbye is too emotional to endure without crying.
#14: “Armageddon” (1998)
The 1990s were filled with summer blockbusters that featured one apocalyptic event after another. This genre was capped off with 1998’s “Armageddon.” In the movie, a team of oil rig operators, led by a grizzled Bruce Willis and his right-hand man Ben Affleck, embark into space to save the world. The lads land on the surface of a world-killer asteroid set to destroy it, but the trip exacts a heavy toll, claiming the lives of half the squad. Ultimately, it is Willis who makes the ultimate sacrifice. His emotional goodbyes to his daughter and his future son-in-law were truly heartbreaking to audiences. Set to Aerosmith’s “I Don't Want to Miss a Thing,” the two scenes were serious tear-jerkers for late ‘90s men.
#13: “Rudy” (1993)
We all have a dream and that’s what makes this film based on a true story so powerful. Rudy wants nothing more than to play football at the University of Notre Dame, despite a series of overwhelming odds and unexpected roadblocks. As we watch Rudy struggle to convince the school to admit him, we really begin to feel for his hardship while simultaneously rooting for him based on his undying determination. Once Rudy finally achieves what he wanted to do, don’t be surprised if you find yourself standing and cheering for his accomplishment. As we all know, it can be a struggle working towards a goal, and the pride that comes with achieving it is unmatched.
#12: “Logan” (2017)
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Who would’ve expected a movie about an aged mutant with razor-sharp claws and a wicked temper to hit us right in the feels? Well, thanks to director James Mangold’s smart decision to move away from super heroics for a more personal tale about family and redemption, this third solo Wolverine flick was just as emotionally moving as it was extremely violent. Whether you have tears of joy from seeing Logan’s triumphant berserker rages one last time or are bawling from the loving bond he creates with Laura, this is one comic book movie that tugs at the heartstrings far more than many of its counterparts.
#11: “Dead Poets Society” (1989)
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“Dead Poets Society” is a story about a group of young boys at an elite New England boarding school. Living away from their families at a formative age, they are desperate - even if they don’t know it - for an encouraging father figure. They find him in Robin Williams’ Mr. Keating. Keating is their poetry teacher, who teaches the young boys how to think for themselves in an institution pushing conformity. He introduces them to the concept of seizing the day in their own lives, incidentally popularizing the Latin phrase “carpe diem.” When Keating is forced to leave his position, the students signal their allegiance to him in a heartfelt, but ultimately futile scene.
#10: “It's a Wonderful Life” (1946)
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In addition to being a Christmas classic, Frank Capra’s “It’s a Wonderful Life” is a harrowing tale about the difficulties in achieving stability in America. The protagonist, George Bailey, spends his life sacrificing his own aspirations to support his family and community. His selflessness costs him dearly, pushing his family business to the brink of insolvency. At this dark moment, George considers taking his own life, but is stopped by an angel named Clarence, who shows him all the good he's contributed. This low point is shockingly emotional for a movie made in 1946. When the community ultimately rallies around Goerge, it's hard not to tear up at the thought of good deeds finally being rewarded.
#9: “Rocky IV” (1985)
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In “Rocky III,” the heavyweight champ loses everything. Clubber Lang takes his title, and a heart attack takes the life of his trainer and surrogate father, Mickey. It’s only by befriending and training with his former rival, Apollo Creed, that Rocky makes it back to the top. (Xref) That friendship blossoms in “Rocky IV.” Apollo invites Rocky to be his cornerman when taking on the giant Soviet, Ivan Drago. Despite Rocky’s protestations, Apollo underestimates his adversary and pays the ultimate price. His death is an absolute shock - for Rocky and the audience - who are both forced to mourn him throughout the film. When Rocky's rage transforms into grace and a call for peace, it's impossible not to be moved.
#8: “The Green Mile” (1999)
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The concept of a personal journey during life in prison isn’t a new one, as it’s been done several times in movies, as in the other Stephen King tale, the Oscar-nominated “Shawshank Redemption”. However, we’d argue that “The Green Mile” delivers its heartfelt message more effectively. Much of this can be attributed to stellar performances from Tom Hanks and Michael Clarke Duncan, as we watch their characters bond and share their personal experiences and perspectives. The subject matter is dark, but if the film successfully teaches us anything, it is to hold on to hope even in the direst of situations. If that’s not worthy of shedding a tear or two, then what is?
#7: “Warrior” (2011)
Brothers fight; it’s just sibling nature. But to have to square off in a brutal MMA cage fight is another thing entirely. “Warrior” establishes that the relationship between brothers Tommy and Brendan hasn’t exactly been all that ‘buddy-buddy,’ with a great deal of distance created between them over the years. Despite their estranged family dynamics, as well as the dozens of punches and kicks they toss at each other’s faces, these two brothers manage to put their differences aside and realize how much they actually care for one another. It’s a stunning display of the unconditional love found in brotherhood and packs quite the punch.
#6: “Forrest Gump” (1994)
Watching the life, struggles, and triumphs of Forrest Gump is enough to make even the most stoic, burly man bawl his eyes out. Tom Hanks is no stranger to emotionally charged films, like the epic drama “Cast Away”. But it’s his tender, kind-hearted performance as Mr. Gump, a man born a little different (but still with a heart of gold) who’s trying to find his place in the world, that hits way harder. Whether Forrest is explaining to Jenny how he understands the concept of ‘love,’ meeting his son, or summing up life with a box of chocolates, this man brings us some valuable life lessons… and we should bring along some tissues.
#5: “Interstellar” (2014)
When Earth’s resources are exhausted, former NASA pilot Cooper has no choice but to help in a reconnaissance mission to find a new planet for humanity to call home. Saving the human race means Cooper has to leave his family behind, which includes his young daughter, Murph, with whom he shares an incredibly strong bond. Any fathers watching in particular would feel the weight of having to leave their child for a greater good. Pouring even more salt in the wound, Cooper receives video messages from Earth and has to witness all the events he is missing in his daughter’s life, with one scene having him break down entirely… and we’re inclined to join him.
#4: “Brian's Song” (1971)
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Sports are recognized for developing friendships and bringing people together despite difficulties of modern life. Nowhere is this more evident than in “Brian’s Song,” an ABC TV movie that was later released in theaters. Based in the mid-60s when racial tension was highly prevalent within American society, football players Brian and Gale shatter all societal norms of their day by forming an unbreakable friendship despite the colors of their skin. Their shared connection served as a symbol of civility and harmony in an era that otherwise frowned upon it. Both men stayed by one another’s side through all trials and tribulations, including Brian developing cancer. Now that’s a true bromance right there.
#3: “Saving Private Ryan” (1998)
“Saving Private Ryan” was so realistic, the Department of Veteran Affairs had to create a specific hotline for World War II vets who were traumatized by it. Even those who never saw war would struggle to hold back tears. By forcing the audience deep into the trenches, they are made to share in the experience of this squad of soldiers. With each member’s death, viewers begin to feel like they’re losing a personal friend. Like “Schindler’s List” before it, Spielberg expertly compels his audience to confront the harsh realities of war. From the sorrow of watching many perish during the Holocaust, to the horror of soldiers witnessing their comrades fall, Spielberg brought men across America to tears.
#2: “Good Will Hunting” (1997)
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In this extremely personal story about finding your place in the world and moving on from the hardships of life, there’s no shortage of moments to send waterfalls flowing out from your eyes. As we learn more about Will’s many difficulties in life, we feel more connected with him and whatever pain he goes through, and we fully sympathize. Take your pick for the saddest scene, but most would agree it’s the powerfully acted and written “it’s not your fault” sequence. With all that in mind, it’s not your fault either if you end up crying during this movie. Grab a buddy and HUG it out! It’ll be okay!
#1: “Field of Dreams” (1989)
Iowa farmer Ray Kinsella is a simple man who one day hears voices urging him to “build” something, which Ray interprets as a baseball field. He sets up a baseball diamond in his cornfield and before he knows it, baseball stars of the past, like Shoeless Joe Jackson, visit him. Despite others taunting him and the fact that it threatens to send him into bankruptcy, Ray maintains the field. In the end, this field of dreams allows Ray to learn more about himself than he ever imagined. It also provides him with the chance to introduce his daughter to her grandfather, as he ends up being one of the many visitors on the field.
